Working Mother: Wo Aurat Jo Office Aur Ghar Dono Sambhalti Hai
Subah alarm se pehle uthne wali aurat… Lunch box pack karte hue emails check karne wali aurat… Meeting ke beech mein bachche ke school ka call receive karne wali aurat…
Ye koi superpower wali movie ka scene nahi hai — ye ek Working Mother ki real life hai.
Ye blog un sab auraton ke liye hai jo maa bhi hain aur professional bhi. Jo roz apne sapnon aur zimmedariyon ke beech balance banane ki koshish karti hain. Jo thak kar bhi rukti nahi. Aur jo aksar sab kuch sambhalte-sambhalte khud ko bhool jaati hain.
Working Mother Ka Matlab Sirf “Busy” Hona Nahi Hai
Log aksar kehte hain:
“Tum toh working ho, tum strong ho.”
Par koi ye nahi poochta:
- Kya tum emotionally theek ho?
- Kya tum khud ke liye time nikal pa rahi ho?
- Kya tum guilt ke saath jee rahi ho?
Working mother hona sirf paisa kamana nahi hai. Ye ek emotional journey hai jahan:
- Office mein prove karna hota hai
- Ghar mein perfect rehna hota hai
- Aur society ke expectations ko roz face karna hota hai
Guilt – Working Mothers Ka Unsung Companion
Sabse bada emotional struggle hota hai guilt.
- Bachcha beemar ho aur meeting miss na kar pao — guilt
- Office mein late ho jao aur bachcha yaad aaye — guilt
- Khud ke liye thoda time nikalo — guilt
Ye guilt dheere-dheere self-confidence ko kam kar deta hai. Par sach ye hai:
👉 Aap galat nahi ho. 👉 Aap selfish nahi ho. 👉 Aap ek responsible mother ho jo apni identity bhi banana chahti hai.
Ek Maa Ka Sapna Bhi Uski Zimmedari Jitna Hi Zaroori Hai
Hum maa ko hamesha sacrifice ke frame mein dekhte hain. Par har maa ke paas bhi:
- Kuch sapne hote hain
- Kuch ambitions hote hain
- Kuch goals hote hain
Agar maa khush hogi, fulfilled hogi — toh ghar ka emotional environment bhi healthy hoga.
Working mother apne bachche ko sirf paise nahi deti, wo deti hai:
- Independence ka example
- Hard work ka lesson
- Self-respect ka meaning
Society Ka Pressure: Perfect Maa + Perfect Employee
Society chahti hai ki:
- Maa kabhi thake nahi
- Ghar hamesha perfect rahe
- Office mein performance top rahe
Par koi ye nahi sikhata ki maa bhi insaan hoti hai.
Working mother ka sabse bada challenge hai —
“Sab kuch perfect karna.”
Aur isi chakkar mein wo apni mental health ignore kar deti hai.
Motivation: Aap Apni Kahani Khud Likh Rahi Ho
Agar aaj aap:
- Subah 6 baje uth kar sab manage kar rahi ho
- Thakaan ke bawajood office ja rahi ho
- Aur raat ko bachche ke saath smile kar rahi ho
Toh yaad rakhiye:
✨ Aap extraordinary ho. ✨ Aap ek role model ho. ✨ Aap apni beti aur bete dono ke liye example ho.
Aap unhe sikha rahi ho ki:
- Maa hona kamzor hona nahi hai
- Aurat ka career bhi important hai
Self-Care Is Not Luxury, It Is Survival
Working mothers aksar sochti hain:
“Abhi time nahi hai.”
Par sach ye hai — time kabhi khud nahi milta, banana padta hai.
Self-care ka matlab spa ya vacation nahi hota. Kabhi-kabhi self-care hota hai:
- 10 minute shanti se chai peena
- Bina guilt ke thakawat accept karna
- Help maangna
- Apne liye boundaries banana
Bachchon Ke Liye Strong Maa Ka Matlab
Bachche un maaon ko nahi chahte jo hamesha perfect hon. Bachche chahte hain:
- Happy maa
- Emotionally available maa
- Khud se pyaar karne wali maa
Jab maa apni khushi choose karti hai, toh bachche bhi emotionally secure bante hain.
Ek Chhota Sa Reminder (Dil Se ❤️)
Agar aaj koi aapse ye nahi keh raha, toh main keh deti hoon:
Aap kaafi ho. Aap jo kar rahi ho, wo enough hai. Aapka struggle valid hai.
Aap sirf ek working mother nahi ho — aap ek inspiration ho.
Maa Hona Aur Khud Ko Jeena Dono Zaroori Hai
Working mother ka safar mushkil hai, par ye safar bekaar nahi hai.
Aap har din apni kahani likh rahi ho — mehnat, pyaar aur himmat se.
Isliye jab bhi aap khud par doubt karein, mirror mein dekhiye aur yaad rakhiye:
“Main maa hoon. Main professional hoon. Aur main dono roles mein complete hoon.”
Agar aap bhi ek working mother hain jo balance, clarity aur emotional strength chahti hain —
👉 Khud ko priority banana seekhne ke liye aaj hi humse connect karein. 👉 Aap akeli nahi ho. Aapka safar samjha jaata hai.